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Amy E. Harth, PhD's avatar

Maybe because I’m AutiHD, but I definitely have avoidant thoughts but they are not positive! I am so overwhelmed by the consequences of failure (not doing a work report well and losing my job, my family becoming homeless and dying) that I have days of less traction on project than I’d like until that fear is so powerful I go into hyperfocus to avoid calamity.

Working on using self-regulating to calm down and not expect 110% of myself as a baseline standard but it’s still a challenge. It’s eye opening to understand that this avoidant positive mental process also exists!

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